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Probate & Estate Disputes  ·  June 2026

What Happens If You Refuse Mediation in a Probate Dispute? New 2026 Rules Explained.

Skipping mediation is no longer just a missed opportunity. Under new court rules, it can expose you to devastating cost penalties — even if you win.

Key takeaway: As of April 6, 2026, courts in England and Wales have full authority to order parties in probate disputes to mediate — and to penalize those who refuse without good reason. Cost sanctions range from a 25% cut in recoverable costs all the way to full indemnity costs (roughly 80–100% of the other side's legal fees).

What Changed — and When

The shift didn't happen overnight. It built through a series of rule changes and court decisions that, together, have fundamentally transformed contentious probate litigation.

Nov 2023 Churchill v Merthyr Tydfil — Court of Appeal confirms judges can stay proceedings and compel ADR. The assumption that mandatory mediation was off-limits is overturned.
May 2024 Conway v Conway — Defendants win the case but lose 25% of their recoverable costs after flatly rejecting mediation as "absurd."
Oct 2024 CPR amended: courts expressly empowered to order ADR (CPR 3.1(2)(o)). New CPR 44.2(5)(e) requires courts to consider unreasonable ADR refusals when awarding costs.
Oct 2025 Fernandez v Fernandez — Losing appellant ordered to pay ~100% indemnity costs after ignoring 26 proposed mediation dates. Judge: conduct was "patently obvious… just did not wish to mediate."
Apr 2026 CPR Amendment Rules 2026 in force — all ADR provisions fully entrenched. Mediation pilot extended to April 2027.

The Stakes: What Sanctions Actually Look Like

Courts apply sanctions on a sliding scale based on how unreasonable the refusal was — and whether the refusing party won or lost. Here's what recent cases show:

Minor inflexibility

10–25%

Reduction in recoverable costs. Applies even to winning parties.

Serious refusal

50–75%

Partial indemnity costs. Sustained obstruction or silence to repeated offers.

Extreme conduct

≈100%

Full indemnity costs. "Out of the norm" conduct — like ignoring dozens of proposals.

⚠️ Even winners are not safe. In Conway v Conway, the defendants prevailed — and still lost 25% of their recoverable costs for dismissing mediation without serious consideration.

"The importance of mediation can never be over-emphasized."

— Judge Mithani KC, Conway v Conway [2024]

Why Probate Disputes Are Especially Suited to Mediation

Inheritance disputes are not just about money. They involve grief, family dynamics, perceived unfairness, and deeply personal histories. A judge can decide who inherits the house — but a mediator can help family members actually hear each other and reach terms they've chosen themselves.

Confidentiality — Sensitive family matters stay out of the public record.
Speed — Contested probate can drag through courts for years; mediation often resolves in one or two sessions.
Cost-effectiveness — Mediator fees are almost always lower than the litigation costs they avoid.
Relationship preservation — Families who litigate to judgment rarely speak again; those who mediate sometimes do.
Control — Parties shape the outcome rather than handing it to a judge.

6 Things Practitioners and Clients Should Do Right Now

1
Raise ADR at the very first meeting. Discuss mediation before proceedings are issued. It signals good faith and creates a paper trail.
2
Put every ADR offer in writing. Date it, set a response deadline, keep a copy. The other side's silence can count against them in court.
3
Respond to every invitation promptly. Propose alternative dates or formats rather than rejecting outright — engagement matters.
4
Document your reasons if you decline. "We didn't think it would work" isn't enough. Courts will want specifics.
5
Use an accredited mediator. The Civil Mediation Council's 2026 Code of Practice raises the bar. CMC-accredited mediators meet those standards.
6
Advise clients on the real cost of refusal. Even a winning party may recover as little as 75 cents on the dollar — or far less — if they refused mediation.

3 Cases Every Estate Litigant Should Know

Churchill v Merthyr Tydfil [2023] EWCA Civ 1416

The landmark ruling that confirmed courts may lawfully order parties to engage in ADR and stay proceedings to facilitate it. This case overturned the prior assumption that mandatory mediation was off-limits and opened the door to everything that followed.

Conway v Conway [2024] EW Misc 19 (CC)

Defendants won on the merits but were denied 25% of their recoverable costs for rejecting mediation as "absurd." The judge held that winning on the law does not insulate a party from ADR cost consequences.

Fernandez v Fernandez [2025] EWHC 2530 (Ch)

The outer limit. A losing appellant was ordered to pay full indemnity costs after ignoring 26 proposed mediation dates, delaying proceedings, and introducing new claims mid-litigation. The judge described the refusal as "patently obvious."

The Bottom Line

Mediation in probate disputes is no longer optional in any meaningful sense. Courts are using their expanded powers. Judges are imposing serious cost sanctions. And the rules are only going to tighten as the Civil Justice Council's proposals for mandatory pre-action ADR move closer to implementation.

The practitioners who serve their clients best right now are those who treat mediation as the first serious option — not the last resort.

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